Women, Stop Paying Your Own Bride Price – Man’s Controversial Warning Goes Viral

Published August 5, 2025 at 1:10 AM

In a thought-provoking message shared on social media, Nigerian relationship coach Nelson Asuen has advised women against funding their own bride price, regardless of their desire to support their partners. The caution comes amid growing conversations around gender roles and financial contributions in relationships and marriage.

Asuen issued the advice via a Facebook post on Monday, where he emphasized the importance of maintaining traditional roles in the marriage process. He believes that even in cases where a woman is financially stable and eager to support her partner, contributing to her own bride price could diminish the symbolic value of the union.

“No matter the support you want to show, please don’t pay your own bride price,” Asuen wrote. His post has since sparked discussions online, with some agreeing that cultural rites should remain sacred, while others argue for a more progressive approach to marriage responsibilities.