She Sent Me Out At Night – Skit Maker Ogbeni Adan Opens Up About Family Ordeal

Nigerian skit maker Ogbeni Adan has made fresh allegations against his mother, accusing her of subjecting him to years of alleged maltreatment, humiliation and emotional abuse.

The entertainer made the claims in a series of social media posts while responding to individuals who had urged him to apologise to his mother for publicly discussing their family disagreement.

Explaining why he believes his mother should be the one seeking forgiveness, Ogbeni Adan recounted an incident in which he allegedly returned to his father’s home after experiencing financial difficulties that left him unable to renew his rent.

He claimed that during his stay, his mother ordered him to vacate the mattress he was sleeping on because his sister’s husband wanted to use it.

According to the skit maker, when he asked where he was expected to sleep, his mother allegedly pulled the mattress away, scattered his belongings and insulted him. He further claimed that she compared his usefulness to that of his brother-in-law, who reportedly bought her gifts and other items.

Ogbeni Adan also alleged that whenever his mother travelled, he was left to perform several household duties, including sweeping, washing dishes and preparing meals for his father. However, he claimed that instead of receiving appreciation for his efforts, he often faced hostility when she returned.

The entertainer further alleged that his mother influenced his father to send him out of the house late at night, leaving him without accommodation or anyone to turn to for assistance.

In another account, Ogbeni Adan recalled telling his mother about a friend he suspected was working against his career and personal progress.

He claimed that her response was, “File o, oko iya niyen, emi ni sugar mummy e,” which he said she made in the presence of his father, who allegedly failed to react.

The skit maker also accused his mother of repeatedly cheating, embarrassing and devaluing him over the years. He further alleged that she influenced his father to treat him in a similar manner.

Responding to calls for him to apologise, Ogbeni Adan described the pressure as an attempt to gaslight him, insisting that speaking publicly about his alleged experiences should not make him responsible for seeking forgiveness.

According to information made available to Bush Radio Academy, the entertainer maintained that his account of the alleged treatment he received from his mother was the reason he believed an apology should come from her instead.

His latest revelations have added another dimension to the ongoing family dispute, drawing attention to his strained relationship with his mother and the allegations he has made against her.