Patrick and Ireti got married in 2004, and the actress publicly confirmed their separation in 2023.
In a social media post at the time, she revealed that the marriage had ended but noted that she would continue using her husband’s surname, which she had built professionally over the years.
During an interview with media personality Morayo Afolabi Brown, Ireti explained that she chose not to speak publicly about the divorce because she believes it is not a matter for public consumption.
She stressed that she would not allow her personal life to become “clickbait,” adding that she only owes explanations to close family members and those who witnessed their wedding.
The veteran actress also reflected that breakups, especially long-term ones, are often painful, but emphasized the importance of healing privately rather than expressing emotions on social media.
She advised that after a marriage ends, individuals should focus more on self-reflection and understanding what went wrong, rather than seeking public sympathy or attention online.
Responding to a question about their quiet separation, Ireti said the matter was private and not meant for public discussion, noting that marriage is a personal journey between two people.
She added that beyond close family and friends, the wider public does not require an explanation for such personal matters.
Ireti further stated that she would never willingly turn her life into online content or “clickbait,” explaining that public opinion cannot change the reality of a broken relationship.
She concluded that the end of a long-term relationship is always painful, and that healing requires introspection rather than public commentary, with the goal of learning and avoiding past mistakes.