How I Want to Be Remembered: Onyeka Onwenu’s Final Wishes Revealed

How I Want to Be Remembered: Onyeka Onwenu’s Final Wishes RevealedOnyeka Onwenu, the revered singer, actress, journalist, author, and politician, who passed away unexpectedly on July 30 at Reddington Hospital, Lagos, has left behind poignant instructions on how she wishes to be remembered.

The legendary performer, known for her impactful career and activism, made her final public appearance at the birthday party of Mrs. Stella Okoli, where she performed for the last time before collapsing. In the wake of her passing, her 2021 opinion piece published in Premium Times has gained renewed attention.

In the reflective article, Onyeka shared her heartfelt wishes for her burial. “Do it quickly, quietly, and privately,” she instructed. She urged her loved ones to mourn but not excessively, emphasizing instead the importance of celebrating her life with joy and light-hearted moments. “Celebrate me with prayers, a meal, and laughter. Share some jokes about me and enjoy yourselves,” she wrote.

Onwenu expressed her discomfort with the opulent displays often associated with Nigerian funerals. “I am very uncomfortable with the lavish display of wealth on any occasion, especially in times of hardship for many,” she said, advocating for a more modest and meaningful way to honor the deceased. “Celebrate me while I am alive so I can enjoy it with you, rather than after I am gone and unaware of it.”

Her final wishes reflect her desire for a humble and genuine celebration of her life, away from extravagance.