Don’t Let Anybody Take Your Wife’s Place — Paul Enenche’s Wife Sends Strong Message To Men

The wife of Pastor Paul Enenche, founder of Dunamis International Gospel Centre, has advised married men to establish clear boundaries in their relationships with female secretaries and personal assistants to protect their marriages.

According to Bush Radio Academy, she gave the advice in a viral video while discussing workplace relationships and the importance of ensuring that professional interactions do not interfere with marital responsibilities.

She cautioned married men against allowing their relationships with female colleagues to become so personal that they begin to affect the attention and commitment they owe their wives.

The cleric’s wife emphasised that men should pay attention to their communication habits, warning that frequent messages from another woman could be a reason to examine the boundaries within the relationship.

“By the time there’s somebody’s text message that is entering your phone more than your wife’s text message, query, query, query. Make efforts to protect yourself,” she said.

She further stressed that married men must be intentional about protecting their marriages and should not allow another woman to occupy the position reserved for their wives.

“Please don’t let anybody take the place of your wife,” she added.

The pastor’s wife also raised concerns about situations in which female secretaries become excessively involved in their male employers’ personal affairs. Using the example of preparing tea, she advised men to maintain appropriate professional boundaries and avoid unnecessary personal interactions that could create complications in their marriages.

“If your secretary is a woman, just ensure you have boundaries and don’t let them cook your tea,” she stated.

Her remarks focused on the need for married men to exercise caution in workplace relationships and ensure that professional arrangements do not gradually develop into inappropriate personal attachments.

Pastor Paul Enenche also shared his perspective after his wife handed him the microphone, disclosing that he had never employed a female secretary or personal assistant throughout his 30 years of experience.

“I have never had one for 30 years either as a secretary or as a PA. That’s personal decision, right?” he said.

The cleric also commented on the common perception that women are particularly suited to secretarial roles because of their attention to detail. He illustrated his observation by referring to situations in which mistakes could persist in official correspondence despite corrections.

However, Enenche clarified that his decision not to employ a female secretary or personal assistant was a personal choice.

The couple’s comments have drawn attention to discussions about professional boundaries, trust and the importance of protecting marital relationships. Their advice underscores the need for spouses to communicate openly, maintain mutual respect and exercise sound judgment in their interactions with colleagues and personal assistants.