Wife Allegedly Advises Friend To Abort Pregnancy While Secretly Avoiding Another Child

A Nigerian man has sparked discussions on social media after sharing the story of a friend who allegedly discovered his wife’s private plans about having more children while checking her phone.

The man, identified on X as @King-naeto, said his friend was holding his wife’s phone around midnight when a message notification suddenly appeared, prompting him to read the conversation.

According to information made available to Bush Radio Academy, the message was reportedly from the woman’s married friend, who was preparing to return to nursing school but was already expecting her second child.

In the conversation, the wife allegedly advised her friend to terminate the pregnancy so she could concentrate on her education.

However, the discussion reportedly took an unexpected turn when the wife disclosed that she was also taking contraceptive pills to avoid becoming pregnant, explaining that she wanted to pursue a master’s degree after securing employment.

The revelation reportedly came as a shock because her husband had been hoping to have a second child, although he had yet to confront her about what he discovered.

The incident has generated mixed reactions online, with several social media users debating the importance of communication and mutual understanding between married couples when making family-planning decisions.

Reacting to the story, an X user identified as Elijaru questioned the wife’s alleged actions, writing, “Isn’t this wickedness? She could have just communicated with the husband instead going behind”.

Another user, Cluee, suggested that the husband should keep evidence of the conversation, saying, “If I were him, I would take a screenshot as proof incase she finds out later that I have impregnated another lady outside”.

Similarly, Imnota acknowledged the wife’s reasons for delaying another pregnancy but argued that she should have discussed the decision with her husband.

“Her reasons are good, but she should have discussed it with her husband. Woo, na them sabi,” the user wrote.

Meanwhile, Stagga questioned why people with similar negative attitudes rarely end up with one another, adding to the debate surrounding the situation.