Drama Unfolds As Blessing CEO Throws Shades At Phyna Amid Family Tragedy

Relationship and lifestyle coach Blessing Okoro, better known as Blessing CEO, has taken a swipe at reality TV star Phyna over her clash with activist VeryDarkMan (VDM).

In a video posted on Sunday, Blessing CEO said she sympathized with Phyna’s loss but criticized the way she managed her disagreement with VDM, describing it as a display of ingratitude despite his previous support.

She argued that instead of attacking VDM and siding with his rival, Izzy Ogbeide, Phyna could have sought help from other activists such as Harrison, Daddy Freeze, or Brekete.

Blessing CEO further accused the BBNaija winner of allowing her sister’s health struggles to become online “content,” stressing that activists are human beings who also deserve appreciation.

According to her, Phyna’s choice to publicly bash VDM while still expecting his help was contradictory and unnecessary.

“Phyna, I am sorry for the loss of your sister, but you need to learn some lessons. Do not let anger control you. Watch your words, especially in difficult times, because even a little misstep can be used against you. This is not about you and VDM, it is about gratitude,” she said.

“You could have gone to Harrison, Daddy Freeze, or Brekete instead of running to Izzy Ogbeide just to spite VDM. Izzy only used you as bait in his fight with him. Meanwhile, you turned your sister’s tragedy into content. Activists are human too, and when people show ingratitude, it drains their energy. If someone has been kind to you before, even if you fall out, keep quiet. Gratitude will always keep you standing tall.”

She concluded by reminding Phyna that expecting VDM’s help after making “disgusting” comments about him was unfair and avoidable.

Phyna’s younger sister, Ruth Otabor, was struck by a Dangote truck in Auchi on August 13, 2025. She sustained severe injuries, including an amputation, and was placed on life support before passing away on Sunday.