Lagos Caterer Reveals Husband Left Her and Baby Due To Spinal Cord Defect

Lagos Caterer Reveals Husband Left Her and Baby Due To Spinal Cord Defect

Angela Onwuzoo shares the distressing account of Kehinde Folly, a 36-year-old Lagos caterer who, along with her 18-month-old son, was left homeless and unsupported by her husband after their baby was diagnosed with spina bifida……… CONTINUE READING

**Detailed Account:**
Kehinde Folly’s life took a harrowing turn following the birth of her son, Habeeb, on January 23, 2023. The infant was born with spina bifida, a condition where the spinal cord does not develop properly, leading to severe lifelong complications.

Despite a happy marriage with Jamal Folly, a furniture maker, their joy turned to despair when their son’s diagnosis became known. Jamal’s enthusiasm for starting a family had waned, and after the birth, his demeanor changed drastically. He became distant and eventually left Kehinde and Habeeb when the severity of the baby’s condition was revealed.

During her pregnancy, Kehinde experienced complications, including the detection of excess fluid in the baby’s brain. Following a cesarean section delivery, Habeeb was diagnosed with spina bifida, prompting Kehinde to seek treatment at the Federal Medical Centre in Ebute Metta. Jamal’s lack of financial support and his subsequent departure left Kehinde in a precarious situation.

Kehinde, who has struggled to sustain her catering business and support her son’s needs, faced eviction from their Surulere apartment due to expired rent. Her husband’s abandonment left her with no choice but to rely on the generosity of neighbors and relatives for Habeeb’s surgery and medical expenses.

The World Health Organization notes that spina bifida often comes with additional complications like hydrocephalus, which further complicates the condition. Despite these challenges, Kehinde’s efforts to reconnect with Jamal or seek his assistance have been in vain. His lack of support has compounded her struggles, leaving her to navigate her son’s medical needs and their dire financial situation largely on her own.

**Additional Information:**
According to the WHO, spina bifida can be mitigated by adequate folic acid intake before pregnancy. The condition, if untreated, can lead to severe health issues, including paralysis and cognitive impairments.