Three Days After Their Date, Man’s Alleged Response To Refund Request Leaves Nigerian Lady Shocked

A Nigerian woman identified as @Abbietrends on X, formerly Twitter, has sparked reactions online after recounting how her friend was allegedly insulted by a man she went on a date with after asking him to refund the cost of their meal.

According to Bush Radio Academy, the woman disclosed in a viral post that her friend had initially paid for the meal because of a glitch with the man’s banking application.

However, three days after the date, her friend reportedly contacted the man to request a refund of the money she had spent on their meal, only to receive an unexpected and unpleasant response.

The woman expressed shock over the man’s reaction, particularly the insults her friend allegedly received for asking him to return the money.

She questioned why the man would respond harshly to a request for a refund, especially since her friend had covered the expenses during their outing.

According to her account, the man’s response left her astonished and prompted her to question the behaviour of some men in dating situations.

Although the woman did not disclose the total amount spent on the meal, her post has generated widespread reactions, with social media users sharing different opinions about the incident.

Some commenters criticised the man’s alleged behaviour, arguing that he should have handled the request respectfully and honoured any understanding regarding the payment.

One user suggested that the incident could help the woman recognise the man’s attitude early in the relationship, before becoming more emotionally invested.

Another commenter condemned his reported response, describing the situation as an experience from which the woman’s friend could learn a lesson.

However, some reactions reflected differing views about the circumstances surrounding the date, while others questioned why anyone would respond rudely to a straightforward request for a refund.

The incident has reignited conversations online about financial expectations during dates, mutual respect and the importance of clear communication between people getting to know each other.