My Wife Is My Last Resort When Life Gets Tough” – Deyemi Okanlawon Opens Up

Nollywood actor Deyemi Okanlawon has opened up about how he copes with life’s toughest moments, revealing that while his wife remains his greatest source of comfort, he also relies on a strong support system to navigate challenges.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶

Speaking during an interview with Dear Ife, the actor said his wife is the person he turns to whenever life becomes overwhelming. However, he noted that he tries not to burden her frequently, as she is busy with her own career while also managing their home and family.

Okanlawon disclosed that on the rare occasions when the emotional weight becomes unbearable, he wakes her up in the middle of the night to seek comfort and support.

He also stressed that his wife is not his only pillar of strength. According to the actor, he has intentionally built a reliable support network comprising a therapist, mentors, and trusted friends who provide guidance and emotional support when needed.

The actor encouraged men to stop bottling up their emotions, warning that trying to carry life’s burdens alone can become overwhelming.

“When the thing is just too hard, there’s my wife. She’s not the first because she’s dealing with her own business and raising the family. But when it’s hitting me too hard, I’ll wake her in the middle of the night and tell her to help me,” he said.

Reflecting on the expectations placed on men, Okanlawon added, “My job is to protect the people around me. If gbege happens here now, the chances are I’m going to step in front. It’s what needs to happen. There’s no excuse. You also have to be aware enough to find healing.”