No Man Can Fully Please A Woman’ — Funke Adejumo’s Message To Married Men Sparks Debate

Nigerian preacher and marriage counsellor, Reverend Funke Felix-Adejumo, has advised married men not to jeopardise their health or well-being in an attempt to meet every expectation of their wives, saying no one can completely satisfy another person.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶

Speaking during a church gathering, Felix-Adejumo encouraged husbands to give their best in marriage without placing overwhelming pressure on themselves.

“Listen to me very, very carefully. Do everything, but don’t kill yourself. Married men, hear me, I’m a woman speaking to you now. There is nobody that can please a woman,” she said.

Explaining her viewpoint, the cleric suggested that women naturally seek improvement and change, using beauty and fashion choices to illustrate her point.

“The Almighty God gave us nails, we will cut the nails and attach another one. God gave us eyebrows, we will shave it off and put another one. God gave us hair, we will remove it. The Almighty God cannot please us; who are you that you want to please us?” she added.

She urged men to focus on making sincere efforts in their marriages rather than exhausting themselves in pursuit of perfection.

“Don’t die! Do your best,” she advised.

Addressing women, Felix-Adejumo also encouraged wives to build financial independence instead of relying solely on their husbands for support.

She urged women to develop personal sources of income so that any financial support from their spouses would serve as an addition rather than their only means of livelihood.

“Don’t let the money you will have be only sexually transmitted money. You have your money. So that whatever your husband gives you, it will be an addition. Esther chapter 2, they gave her her own. Where is your own now? Who says you too cannot surprise your husband with a Prado?” she said.

Drawing from her own marriage, the bishop recalled giving her husband 61 gifts on his 60th birthday as an example of financial empowerment and generosity within a relationship.

She concluded by encouraging women to move beyond complete financial dependence on their spouses, saying, “Your life should not be dependent on ‘until daddy comes’. We have left that level.”