Why Young Women In FRSC Are Advised To Delay Marriage For Two Years – Insights From Evaluation Head

Why Young Women In FRSC Are Advised To Delay Marriage For Two Years – Insights From Evaluation Head

Emma Fekoya, Head of Managing and Evaluation at the Federal Road Safety Commission, shared insights on the impact of postings on married women within the agency and how it affects their marriages and households, along with potential solutions to address the issue.

Reflecting on her experience in the role, Fekoya emphasized the gratification derived from interacting with people and resolving their issues, particularly in life-saving situations. She finds fulfillment in imparting road safety knowledge, thus enhancing drivers’ skills and preventing accidents. Fekoya views proactive measures to prevent accidents as a significant boon, rather than merely responding to tragedies, which she considers a blessing.

When queried about the major challenges faced by women in her position, Fekoya highlighted the issue of postings as a widespread concern. Being relocated away from family poses significant emotional and logistical burdens, requiring women to manage households from a distance. Despite the adversity, Fekoya adopts a mindset of transforming obstacles into opportunities for personal growth, viewing challenges as catalysts for advancement rather than insurmountable barriers.

Regarding the impact of these challenges on married women within the agency, Fekoya noted a significant number of disrupted households due to postings. While precise statistics are lacking, she attests to the widespread nature of the issue. The demand for constant presence at work, even in remote locations, exacerbates the strain on family life. Fekoya acknowledged the prevailing preference among agencies for unmarried employees during the initial two years of service, recognizing the need to safeguard jobs amidst marital and pregnancy-related transitions. However, she emphasized the enduring impact on women, asserting that marriage and childbirth fundamentally alter one’s circumstances. Despite these challenges, Fekoya admires the resilience of some women who defy these odds and choose to maintain their professional identity amidst familial responsibilities.

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